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How to survive graduation with your ex

May begins the most challenging time of year (outside of the holiday season) for divorced and separated parents in west Michigan. Graduation season is where families get together to celebrate their children's accomplishments, but it is also a time where people who cannot stand each other have to cross paths. 

While  a root canal appointment may be more attractive than spending a couple hours next to your spouse, it is important to survive these times. The well-being of your child is important enough. As such, there are are several strategies that can help.

'Gossip Girl' star close to bankruptcy from custody dispute

"Gossip Girl" star Kelly Rutherford is reportedly near bankruptcy after spending her fortune litigating an international child custody dispute with her former husband, German businessman Daniel Gersch. In what is being termed as "the worst custody decisions ever" a Los Angeles County family court judge gave the parties joint legal custody, and joint physical custody, but ordered the children ( six-year-old Hermes and three-year-old Helena) to live in France with their father. (Gersch had his visa revoked and is not able to travel to the United States.)

 

Unexpected Cases in Family Law

One of the reasons why our firm specializes in family law is because of the interesting issues that arise when dealing with people in real life situations. Some of the unusual situations almost defy imagination.

Should you give the ring back if you cancel the wedding?

With the bliss that comes with a recent engagement, there unfortunately can be heartbreak when a couple decides not to tie the knot. Besides the complicated issue of explaining why the wedding will not happen, the couple may have to deal with the question of what happens with the engagement ring.

Normally, a bride-to-be will give the ring back, out of respect or desire to not be burdened with a painful memento. However, some brides may be tempted to keep the ring, and even sell it (and keep the proceeds). This raises another question for prospective grooms: If the wedding is cancelled, can you get the ring back?

Signs of parental alienation

Most people who claim that they are victims of parental alienation are dismissed as being misguided, or are told that they just are imagining things. These assessments can be frustrating (to the alienating parent) because parental alienation syndrome (PAS) is very real, despite the fact that it is not formally recognized as a cognitive disorder.

Nevertheless, PAS is claimed in a number of child custody cases, but it can be very difficult to quantify. This post will identify a few signs of PAS and give some tips on how to handle it.

Joint Legal Custody a Barrier to Step-Parent Adoption

A recent Court of Appeals case seems to draw a clear line in cases of parental termination and step-parent adoption. In this case, mother and father were married and had one child. They divorced and mother was awarded primary physical custody of the child, and the parties were awarded joint legal custody. Father was awarded reasonable visitation with the child and was obligated to pay child support.

How to help children through divorce

With such a large portion of U.S. marriages ending in divorce, the scourge of a break up is bound to affect children. Unfortunately, many couples don't consider how the divorce will change them, most of the time for the worst. Research suggests that divorce can increase the chance a child will have emotional and academic problems.

Indeed, some children are resilient and are bound to bounce back quickly, but there are certain steps divorcing parents can take protect kids from additional harm from divorce.

How step-parents and children can peacefully co-exist

In the last 20 years, the blended family has become an integral part of American culture. At least one-third of American children will live in a household that includes a step-parent at one point in their lives. Because of that, more emphasis is being put on how blended families can co-exist.

While every family is different, a recent study conducted by researchers at Brigham Young University found that the relationship between step-parents and children can be strengthened by maintaining three principles. This post will describe them and how they contribute to a cohesive modern family.

When you should have a cohabitation agreement

Indeed, prenuptial agreements can be controversial. The notion of figuring out how you will divide your assets if the marriage fails is hardly romantic. However, some much time and energy is misspent fighting over money and property that a prenup may be appropriate.

With unmarried couples, this dynamic could be just as troublesome. Cohabitation agreements act as prenups in that they set definitions for how property will be divided should the couple call it quits. Of course, some men and women may not want a cohabitation agreement, and insist that the relationship will last. Below are some classic personalities.

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